How many friends do you have?In our lives, we may get to know hundreds or maybe thousands of people. These people we address them as " friends ". During our childhood days, we used to mixed with our classmates, neighbours, schoolmates and etc, these people are our friends. The good old days when men were still boys, women were still virgins. Everyone was so innocent and we used to helped each other when we are facing difficulties and so does our friends will give us a helping when we are facing problems.
The amount of our friends will decrease time after time due to some reason like don't belong to the same interest group, separation among friends, ended up in different destinations and etc. In addition, some " friends " take might just want to gain advantage on you that's why they are willing to be your " friend ".
Besides that, not only based on my own experience and even I see it from my father's experience. There are some "friends" who may acted close to you and treat you as if like their best buddies ever instead they might betray you or even sprouting nonsense about you behind your back.
Furthermore, I've been through to those situation which I stated above. I once was very protective to all of my friends. In the end, I gained nothing but trouble. However, it doesn't mean that all friends are unfaithfully or unreliable. God is fair to us, there will be at least 2 or 3 best friends or should I use the term " loyal friends " will be there to give me moral support or a much needed helping hand.
Besides that, not only based on my own experience and even I see it from my father's experience. There are some "friends" who may acted close to you and treat you as if like their best buddies ever instead they might betray you or even sprouting nonsense about you behind your back.
Furthermore, I've been through to those situation which I stated above. I once was very protective to all of my friends. In the end, I gained nothing but trouble. However, it doesn't mean that all friends are unfaithfully or unreliable. God is fair to us, there will be at least 2 or 3 best friends or should I use the term " loyal friends " will be there to give me moral support or a much needed helping hand.
Characteristic of a "True Friend"
F- Family like treatment.
R- Respect each other.
I- Interaction.
E- Emotional talk with each other.
N- No secret among us!
D- Distances doesn't matters!
Characteristic of a "Not so True aka 'Fake' Friend"
F- Fooling around you!
R- Runaway from you when you're down.
I- "I don't give a damn on you"
E- Endless complaint about you.
N- Nothing but trouble .
D- Dump you away when they don't need you!
So ask yourself, how many true friends or best friends do you actually have?
p/s: I miss my true friends aka best friends and I'm proud to say that there are only two of them.
